If you have found this blog, you were probably drawn in by the word “Empath” in the title. I know when I was going through many changes in my life and growing spiritually, I found my way into some empath groups but there really wasn’t much out there. Now, it seems, there are articles, blogs, Facebook groups, memes, Pinterest pages dedicated to this term. However and whatever reason you found me, welcome! I have been visiting family for almost a week and I have found myself feeling unbalanced and somewhat susceptible to anxiety attack or picking up others energy. When you are a sensitive person, the most important thing to do for yourself is to stay grounded. I know meditation and yoga are popular in promoting clearing your mind and staying calm but those two practices don’t work for everyone and they certainly don’t work when you aren’t in a space that your are use to being daily. I have written before about the many ways that you can stay grounded but I wanted to focus on the art of journaling. I have kept journals since I was very young, maybe 8 or 9 and now looking back, I believe this is how I stayed sane as a sensitive person. You see, clearing out your thoughts and putting them down on paper create space and flexiblility with interacting with other energy in your daily life. If you don’t clear your mind and “release” your own thoughts and experiences then when you get filled up you are prone to anxiety or “psychic” attacks. Journaling is a form of expression that allows you to be yourself without judgement and clear yourself regularly. It’s easy and it takes a matter of minutes. Let’s keep it simple and do only what you see fit for yourself. You don’t need a beautiful leather bound journal and an hour every morning to do so but then again if that is what works for you then go for it. For myself, I always take a notebook or journal with me and they are random thoughts or feelings that I put down on paper. When I came to visit family, I am overwhelmed by seeing everyone, running around, watching a lot of tv and movies, interacting with old friends and loving on pets. So, to someone who is less sensitive, it is no biggie but for me, if I haven’t been able to have alone time to write out my thoughts then I start to not focus and be present in the moment. I also want time to hurry by because I’m not feeling myself, I get drained and honestly, it usually ends in me getting frustrated and crying. Crying because its a release of emotions for many empaths not because of being sad or angry. If you have “too many feelings” or seem to be overwhelmed with racing thoughts then try picking up a notebook and just writing. You can connect with your true self without anyone else judging what you are saying or being interrupted with opinions and input. You can have a creative output so that there will be more room for energetic input through out your day. This may be a daily ritual for you or maybe weekly depending on what other forms of release you have. For me, I work out daily so that is usually when I clear my head and I am also alone a lot throughout the day so I have time to think my own thoughts and not take on so many thoughts of others. When I travel, celebrate holidays or have a busy work week, I journal daily but most times I journal weekly. Did you ever think writing could help you to embrace your sensitivity? There is no cure for being sensitive and although sometimes it’s hard to accept as a gift, I can assure you that you aren’t a victim and it is not a curse. Try journaling for a couple of weeks and see how you feel and please share your journey here on The Clean Eating Empath.
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